And it's completely okay to be a bit nervous, or not be quite sure where to start! I'd love to give a few pointers, advice, and words of encouragement to ensure that your first date, whether with me or another lovely lady, goes as well as possible. 

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1. Remember that your first time reaching out to a lady is everything. Your first message gives us a little insight on who you are - whether you read our website/ad thoroughly, whether you're newer or have been on a few dates, a general idea on your personality, etc. Don't be afraid to introduce yourself when reaching out! Keep it simple, sweet, and to the point, and make sure to include all necessary booking info to make the process as easy as possible - we'd rather spend the time with you, not going back and forth working out simple details. Also keep in mind that any sort of explicit language or questioning is typically frowned upon, and will usually result in not getting a response. Have all your details worked out ahead of time - how long you'd like to meet for, a day and time, etc. And only reach out when you're ready. 

2. Figure out your budget ahead of time. If a lady is outside of your budget, do not reach out and try to negotiate. It's extremely rude and frowned upon, and doesn't leave a great impression.

3. It's okay to be nervous! Don't feel embarrassed or awkward; remember that we've all started somewhere, and even we were new at one point, too. Because nerves are something that's bound to happen, I personally recommend scheduling a date for at least 90 minutes. This is absolutely of course up to you, however the extra time allows room to relax and really settle in with who you're meeting, to allow yourself more time to relax and really enjoy the date. 

4. Always remember to do your research on who you're meeting. We like to take the time to know who we're meeting for our safety, and you should definitely do the same! I have my website, multiple ads, Preferred411 verification, and multiple reviews out there (I've recently gone through a re-branding, so you can find older reviews under Harley Rose!). Some ladies don't always like reviews, so don't be discouraged if you can't find any on a particular provider you'd like to see. But putting in your own research also shows us that you've taken the time to care about who you're seeing. Thoroughly do your research on who you plan to see - familiarize yourself with their etiquette/rules/etc. page if they have one. 

5. Don't discuss any compensation/rates. All the information you need will be listed on websites, ads, etc. Just have it ready when you meet - keep the "business" aspect to a minimum so we can enjoy the fantasy a bit longer! If you'd like to show your date a little extra appreciation, gifts or tips are always appreciated, but never expected or required. Whether its adding a little extra to her rate, flowers, chocolate, etc., a little extra step will show that you appreciate spending time with her! 

6. Lastly, remember to have fun. Most times, we don't care about things you might think we do like looks, career, etc. We care that you're polite and treat us well. Remember that we're human, too. We all have things we're insecure about, and that's okay. But this a judgment free zone - a place for us to escape into a fantasy and just have fun.